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The Best and Worst College Advice From Real Students

Not all college advice is good or helpful, so you must learn what tips to dismiss. Here's the best and worst college advice from real students to help you!

Heading into college, you’re going to get plenty of advice. Some of it will be super helpful, and some of it... won't. It’s okay to ignore any advice that sets off red flags in your mind. Trust your gut, you know? But what happens if don't know what red flags to look out for? What if something seems like good advice and it turns out not to be? Don't worry. We've got you covered! To help you discern some of the good advice from the bad advice, we asked college students and alumni to share the best and worst college advice they ever received. These are alumni and students who went through it so you know their good advice is good and their warnings should be listened to. 

The best advice

When it comes to college, students who have already been there just get it. The best advice you'll get will typically come from family members already in college, college admission counselors who are in the thick of it every day, and your counselors and teachers who've worked with many students transition into higher education. This best of the best advice comes from students who received it themselves from these reliable sources. 

Treat your day like a 9-to-5

Before I started college, my cousin told me to keep track of my time and treat my day as if I worked nine-to-five. I didn't really like the advice at first; I wanted to be able to choose my class times and take naps in between, so treating college like a “job” wasn’t what I wanted to do with my newfound freedom.
But then I started working on homework late and staying up all night, which caused me to fall behind in my classes since my schedule was all over the place. I realized I needed to have a more stable plan, so I began using the nine-to-five time gap to get work done. Even if I only had two classes that day, I’d use that time to get reading done or catch up on other work. I had more time in the evening to hang out and relax, and I got my sleep schedule back on track. — Ashley Baboot, Virginia Tech, Class of 2016

College is really about two things...

The best advice I ever received was from my Introduction to Economics
professor, who said the diplomas we received at graduation were the least important parts of our time there. To him, college was all about two things: to learn how to learn and to network with people. Classes gave you a firm foundation, but knowing how to recite a textbook wouldn’t land you a job. Instead, you need to know how to pick up the skills you need throughout your life, and you need to lean on your contacts to put you in touch with the career opportunities you can apply that knowledge to. To put it in the
words of another professor: “Don't learn just to get a high GPA; learn so that you can never stop learning.” — Jason L. Bauman Jr., Indiana Wesleyan University, Class of 2008

Get internships!

Yes, it stinks that some internships are unpaid, but they are well worth it. Sometimes you have to put in the grunt work in order to get what you want. For me, I knew I would rather suck it up, work my butt off, and be poor during college than graduate and not be able to land the job that I
wanted. At one point I juggled two internships, a part-time job, and an
executive position in our Ad Club and attended school full-time. I had
the drive and knew what I wanted. It wasn’t necessarily my skills that made me stand out; it was my drive. I was hired less than a week after graduation. — Michelle Hewitt, Indiana University Southeast, Class of 2014


“Explore with structure"

Prior to leaving for college, my mother told me to “explore with structure.” I didn't understand it at the time, but she wanted me to walk that fine line between being enamored with all of the programs and activities available to me on campus and being totally focused on one thing, since I didn’t have enough experience to justify having this kind of focus. So “explore with structure” was a way for her to tell me to be deliberate in my discovery process—to have a plan but still make sure I was exposed to different things. — Kofi Kankam, Harvard University, Class of 1997

Put yourself out there

I was told that I should attempt to meet new people in college. None of my friends from high school would be attending my college, so that seemed a bit intimidating. There was also the fact that it was difficult for me. Most of my friends were the ones I had known since elementary or middle school. But after receiving this advice, I decided to attend an event I had been invited to through my school, Whittier College, before the start of the school year. Although I was nervous about not knowing anyone there, it was through this event that I met one of my best friends for the next three years. I am glad to say it was the best advice that I could have followed going into college. I do not know how I could have survived without the support of this friend. — Alexandra Tamayo, Whittier College, Class of 2016

Do what on a Friday night?!

When I first arrived at college, like many students I got caught up in parties, tailgates, and building a social circle. Then grades came out, and I was in danger of losing my scholarship. I finally did something smart and asked for help from a counselor. He asked, “What have you been doing with your time?” I said, “Studying.” He laughed. Then he told me
to start studying on Friday night. Friday night! No one studies on Friday night. He said, “John, if you want to be more than average, you have to do what the average won’t do.” So I studied every Friday night. I didn’t like it at first, but I got used to it. It made all the difference. Eventually I graduated, and I received the highest academic award given by my school. — John Paul Engel, University of Iowa, Class of 1991

Related: Inside an Average Day in the Life of a College Student

The worst advice

Now that we've been through the tips that will make your life better, let's make sure you avoid this tired advice that could potentially hinder your college experience. 

Pick your college solely based on “sticker price"

My family ruled out several universities based on the “sticker price,” which I now know is not good advice! Many schools offer multiple ways to reduce that price for students, especially students they want. And in my case, we limited our look to in-state schools, thinking they would always be a better value. Again, this is not necessarily true—there are over 4,000 colleges and universities in the United States, and many offer some great values and deals for students. Cast your net wide! — Beth Probst, Purdue University—West Lafayette, Class of 1990

Pick your college based on athletic scholarships

As an athlete in college, the worst advice I ever received was to choose my college based on the amount of athletic scholarship money I was offered. I never researched the classes available or the majors open to me. Three years into college, I ended
up getting a sports-ending injury and was stuck trying to figure out where my degree was going to take me. I was lost. — Anna Crowe Bates, University of South Florida, Class of 2010

Don't shoot for the stars

I was a chemistry and marine science major for undergrad and ended up getting a bad test grade in my Calculus II class. Up to that point, I had a perfect GPA, so I went to a tutor. He told me that keeping my GPA was a “lofty goal” and that I should just move on. I didn’t take his advice and eventually got an A in the class after
working hard to understand the material and doing extra credit. — Apryl DeLancey, University of Tampa, Class of 2003

Play it safe with your major

I entered college undeclared, but my mother kept telling me to major in a high-paying, stable field, such as medicine or law. This made me a nervous wreck during my first semester, as I attempted to take various classes to determine which field interested me most. I expressed interest in psychology, but that wasn’t a viable option to my mother, and her constant pressure to pursue a different major stalled me from pursuing it. Eventually, I decided to ignore her advice and major in Psychology and French. Although I knew she had my best interests at heart, I did not need her to decide my future for me. I can honestly say that attempting to appease your family is one of the worst types of pressure you can place on yourself. You should explore your own interests. — Alexandra Tamayo, Whittier College, Class of 2016

Related: 4 Interesting Ways to Help You Find Your College Major

Ultimately, as we mentioned above, trusting your gut goes a long way, but you only go through the college search process once (or twice if you go to grad school) so you aren’t expected to know everything. Using your best judgment and the aid from people you can trust, you’ll be able to find your dream college, no problem.

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